Ways of reaching an agreement
A financial settlement upon divorce can be negotiated and agreed upon through some of the possible forums.
Direct conversations between you and your ex-partner regarding how you wish to divide the matrimonial assets, income and pension.
Mediation, where a qualified independent mediator creates the right environment to have progressive conversations to reach a financial settlement.
Solicitor correspondence, when your solicitor has an active role, including exchanging financial disclosure with your ex or their solicitors and then being able to advise you on possible settlements and negotiate on your behalf.
Collaborative law or round table meeting involving your solicitors as a form of hybrid between mediation and solicitor correspondence so that you, your solicitor, your ex and their solicitor all attend a meeting together and aim to try a reach a financial settlement.
Court proceedings may be necessary if you are unable to reach a financial settlement with your spouse. Arbitration and private court hearings can also be discussed as other available options at this point.
Please remember that regardless of how you reach an agreement, it will not be legally binding until you have had it drafted into a financial order, also known as a Consent Order and had it approved by the Court.
Please also do consider insuring your spousal maintenance payments if you are receiving this from your ex-partner. This can be done via a life insurance policy.