Divorce arbitration is a private alternative to court in which an independent family law arbitrator is appointed to decide the issues you and your former spouse cannot agree on. In England and Wales, it can be used to resolve disputes involving finances or children, giving you a binding decision and greater control over how and when the process takes place.
Compared with traditional court proceedings, arbitration is usually more flexible, more private and often quicker, while still providing a clear route to resolving outstanding matters with confidence. It keeps proceedings confidential, avoids the uncertainty of a court timetable, and is often more cost-effective.
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What is divorce arbitration?
Divorce arbitration is a process by which both parties hire a legal expert as a third party, who will decide their case outside of the UK court system, in a manner which provides the best outcome for both.
What happens at divorce arbitration?
Arbitration is similar to a court hearing but is heard in private, and you have more control over the process. You and your ex-spouse or your respective legal representatives will negotiate in front of the arbitrator who will officiate the discussion. When you have reached an agreement, it will be drafted into a ‘binding decision’, meaning you must legally comply with the demands made.
Should I take my divorce to arbitration?
Arbitration is usually a much quicker and more efficiant process, generally resulting in lower overall costs for the parties. If you are struggling to reach an agreement on issues relating to divorce and separation but want to avoid the court process, arbitration may be the right process for you.
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An alternative dispute resolution process to arbitration, mediation is when divorcing couples will try to resolve issues relating to finances or children with the help of an impartial legal mediator. This takes place outside of the court, making it a time and cost-effective alternative to traditional litigation. Once you have agreed on the issues, you will have a legally binding agreement, settling any disputes and helping you move on from your relationship post-divorce or separation.
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Collaborative divorce is an alternative out of court dispute resolution process to arbitration, where both parties have their own specially trained lawyer to help them sign a legally binding participation agreement. The process addresses issues such as financial settlement disputes or child arrangement issues, allowing couples to divorce or dissolve their civil partnership with confidence that all legal ties are severed.
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Getting a divorce legally terminates a marriage but does not automatically resolve any financial or child related issues. Both issues need their own separate legal agreements and orders. Using arbitration is an out of court alternative to resolving these disputes through the courts. Whereas arbitration allows you to keep any personal information or documents off the public record, as it is a private method. Our expert arbitrators can facilitate the process, allowing you to settle any disputes that remain after divorce.
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A financial settlement is a legally binging court order or agreement that divides a couple’s assets post marriage or dissolvement of a civil partnership. Dissolving a civil partnership or getting a divorce does not automatically resolve any financial issues, making these financial orders essential to protect you from future financial claims. Arbitration is an effective out of court process to resolve any financial issues and obtaining financial orders.
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If there are any children had during a marriage or civil partnership, once those are ended, a child arrangement order will be needed to decide who the child lives with and how much time they spend with each parent. If you can’t come to a decision together, arbitration is a time and cost effective alternative that obtaining an order through the courts. Our expert arbitration specialists can facilitate any talks and help you obtain a fair outcome.
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When divorces involve substantial wealth (typically over £1million in liquid assets), it can make the process of valuing and dividing assets much more complicated, and it often contains sensitive business information. Arbitration is an effective method of dispute resolution in these cases as it is a time-effective out of court process. This means information remains confidential and out of public court records. Our expert arbitration specialists can help facilitate this process and keep your divorce private and effective.
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Divorce arbitration is a form of private dispute resolution in which both parties voluntarily appoint an independent, qualified arbitrator to decide one or more outstanding issues arising from their separation. The arbitrator acts like a private judge. They hear each party’s case, consider the evidence, and issue a written decision. In financial cases, that decision is called an award, and in children cases, it is called a determination.
Arbitration in England and Wales is governed by the Arbitration Act 1996 and, in family matters, conducted under the rules of the Institute of Family Law Arbitrators (IFLA), whose scheme was launched in 2012. The scheme covers two broad categories:
The substantive dispute is arbitrated in accordance with the law of England and Wales. Critically, the parties agree in advance that the arbitrator’s decision will be binding upon them. Courts in England and Wales have consistently upheld IFLA arbitral awards, most recently confirmed by the Court of Appeal in Haley v Haley [2020] EWCA Civ 1369. In most cases, the award will then be converted into a court order to make it fully enforceable.
Arbitration is distinct from mediation and understanding that distinction matters when you are deciding which route is right for you.
Arbitration is not the right choice for everyone, but for many separating couples in England and Wales, it offers significant advantages over going to court. Some of the most meaningful benefits include:
It is worth noting that arbitration can also be used alongside other processes. If you and your former spouse have reached agreement on some issues but remain deadlocked on others, an arbitrator can be appointed to decide only those outstanding points. This helps you achieve a complete resolution more efficiently.
Arbitration is a consensual process. Both parties must agree to use it, and both sign a formal arbitration agreement (Form ARB1FS for financial disputes, or Form ARB1CS for children disputes), which is then submitted to the IFLA Administrator. By signing, each party confirms they understand and accept the binding nature of the process.
You and your former spouse, guided by your respective lawyers, may nominate an arbitrator of your choosing. If you cannot agree on a suitable person, IFLA can nominate one on your behalf. Arbitrators are experienced family law professionals who are qualified to hear the specific type of dispute in question.
Once appointed, the arbitrator agrees the terms of the process with both parties: The nature of the dispute, the procedure to be followed, and the fees. Arbitration can take place on paper alone, by telephone, via video, or through face-to-face meetings – whichever approach suits your circumstances.
Depending on the nature of your dispute, there may be a case management meeting, interim directions, or a final hearing. Each of you may retain your own solicitor throughout for advice, preparation, and representation. The arbitrator manages the process from start to finish, ensuring it remains fair and impartial.
The arbitrator delivers a written decision with full reasons. In the majority of cases, this award is then taken to court to be converted into a binding court order. Once made, that order is enforceable.
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Mediation helps separating couples work towards an agreement with the support of a neutral third party, but the mediator does not make the decision and either party can leave the process at any time. Arbitration is different because the arbitrator makes the decision, and that decision is binding. It can be a useful option where mediation has broken down or where a final resolution is needed without going to court.
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