Human emotions are rarely so black and white. In many cases one spouse will be leaning much more towards a divorce than the other. In fact, a great number of partners who are confronted with this decision do not want their marriage to end at all. Sometimes, these situations are salvageable so do not be so quick to give up just yet.
Nobody should get married intending to divorce. Although the phrase “till death do us part” does not have the power it once did, those who say it almost always mean it at the time. So don’t rush to the nearest divorce lawyer right away, unless you feel you need to protect yourself financially while you make up your mind. Divorce is a huge decision so it should not be made hastily.