Surrogacy in the UK is an arrangement in which a woman carries and gives birth to a child for another person or couple. Under the law in England and Wales, the surrogate is the legal mother at birth, and if she is married or in a civil partnership, her spouse or civil partner may also be recognised as a legal parent. The intended parents do not become the child’s legal parents automatically and will usually need a parental order after birth. This means the legal position at birth may not reflect the intended family arrangement, which is why it is important to understand the legal framework from the outset. Surrogacy can also involve important issues around consent, eligibility, payments, and the status of any agreement reached before conception.
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How does surrogacy work?
Surrogacy is when a biological woman carries a pregnancy to term on behalf of an individual or couple who are unable to conceive naturally. Surrogate mothers automatically have parental rights upon the birth of the child, but waive these so the intended parent/parents can be the legal parents of the child.
Do I need a lawyer for surrogacy?
Surrogacy is a complicated legal process under UK law. The surrogate, and her partner if she is married, are automatically the legal parents. Intended parent/s will need a transfer of parenthood in order to become the legal parent/s of the child., for which you will need an expert family lawyer. You may also require a lawyer to help you draw up a surrogacy agreement. Please note, surrogacy agreements are not legally binding in England and Wales but can be useful tools to document agreements.
What is a parental order in surrogacy?
A parental order is signed by the surrogate to transfer the legal parentage back to the persons who will be raising and responsible for the child. Under UK law it is the person who brings the baby to term who inherits legal responsibility, not the genetic or intended parents, so it is vital that this order is signed as part of the surrogacy process
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Surrogacy is where a woman carries and gives birth to a child for another person or couple. There are two types of surrogacy arrangement:
The surrogate is artificially inseminated with the intended father or donor’s sperm.
The surrogate not only carries the child but also donates her egg and, as such, she is biologically related to the child.
The surrogate is implanted with an embryo via IVF and therefore she is not biologically related to the child.
Often the sperm and egg of the intended parents will be used, which means the child will be biologically theirs.
Donor egg or sperm can be used if this is not possible but this will impact your ability to apply for a parental order.
Surrogacy in England and Wales involves several distinct legal stages, and it is important to understand each one before conception takes place. The law in this jurisdiction is specific and, in some respects, differs significantly from the position in other countries. Taking early legal advice helps ensure that all parties (intended parents and surrogate alike) have a clear and realistic understanding of their respective rights and responsibilities from the outset.
Surrogacy in England and Wales involves several distinct legal stages, and it is important to understand each one before conception takes place. The law in this jurisdiction is specific and, in some respects, differs significantly from the position in other countries. Taking early legal advice helps ensure that all parties (intended parents and surrogate alike) have a clear and realistic understanding of their respective rights and responsibilities from the outset.
Independent legal advice is strongly recommended for all parties before any surrogacy arrangement begins. Intended parents and surrogates should each instruct their own solicitor so that the legal implications are understood separately and without conflict. This includes advice on legal parenthood, what expenses may lawfully be reimbursed to a surrogate, and what the process of applying for a parental order will involve after the birth.
It is common practice for intended parents and surrogates to put in place a written surrogacy agreement before treatment begins. This document typically sets out the expectations and intentions of all parties in relation to the pregnancy, parenting arrangements, and financial matters. It is important to understand, however, that surrogacy agreements are not legally enforceable under the law of England and Wales. They do not, in themselves, transfer legal parenthood and cannot compel any party to act in a particular way. Their value lies in establishing a shared understanding and providing a reference point if disagreements arise.
Under English and Welsh law, the surrogate is always the child’s legal mother at the point of birth, regardless of any genetic connection to the child. If the surrogate is married or in a civil partnership at the time of conception, her spouse or civil partner will ordinarily be treated as the child’s second legal parent, unless they did not consent to the treatment. This position applies automatically and cannot be altered by agreement. Intended parents do not acquire legal parenthood at birth, a separate legal process is required.
A parental order is the primary legal route by which intended parents in England and Wales can become the child’s legal parents following a surrogacy birth. Once granted, it permanently extinguishes the surrogate’s legal parenthood and results in a new birth certificate being issued naming the intended parents. To be eligible, at least one of the intended parents must have a genetic connection to the child.
The application must ordinarily be made within six months of the birth, and the surrogate (together with any legal spouse or civil partner) must give their free and unconditional consent no earlier than six weeks after the birth. The court will appoint a Parental Order Reporter to assess the child’s welfare and confirm that no unlawful commercial payments have been made.
Surrogacy may be an appropriate solution for people who struggle to get pregnant or have a medical condition which makes it dangerous or impossible for them to give birth.
read moreThere are many reasons why an individual or couple might struggle with infertility issues, such as low sperm count, pelvic inflammatory disease or endometriosis. Using a surrogate could be the best option for those individuals to have a baby.
It is also a popular choice for male same-sex couples who want to have children. As these couples are unable to conceive a child naturally, many seek the help of a surrogate mother to help them reach parenthood.
Some families opt for surrogacy over adoption as the process is typically less lengthy. For those who have always wanted a child that is blood-related to them, surrogacy is the preferred route to do so.
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If you intend to return to the UK following an international surrogacy arrangement, it is vital that you obtain specialist legal advice in the UK because the UK will not recognise any foreign orders or birth certificates. This means the legal parents of your child may not reflect the reality and this needs to be resolved.
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Yes, it has always been legal to enter into a surrogacy arrangement in the UK. However, there are various rules and regulations which need to be carefully considered.
Surrogacy contracts are unenforceable, which means trust between everyone involved must be established.
It is also against the law for a third party (such as a solicitor) to take payment for negotiating a surrogacy contract.
A surrogacy agreement involves a person (the surrogate) agreeing to carry and give birth for an individual or couple (the intended parents). The intention is that the individual or couple will become the baby’s parents following the birth.
This agreement is not enforceable in the UK and the intended parent(s) will need to apply to the court to become the legal parents of the child.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not illegal to pay a surrogate mother for her services in the UK.
However, during the parental order application, the court will need to authorise any payments made over and above the expenses they have reasonably incurred. This could include travel expenses, maternity clothes and loss of earnings.
There is no definition of reasonable expenses, which means the court must decide what is reasonable in each case.
The court often takes quite a relaxed approach and there is a history of the High Court approving payments in international cases that equate to more than expenses.
Apart from the costs of reimbursing your surrogate for various expenses, you’ll also need to pay for your clinic treatment. The price of this will vary depending on your chosen treatment.
If you plan to use the surrogate’s own eggs, you’ll require intrauterine insemination (IUI) treatment. If you’re using your own eggs and sperm, or donated eggs, you’ll have in vitro fertilisation (IVF), which is usually more expensive. If the sperm you use isn’t of the highest quality, you may need to pay for an intracytoplasmic sperm injection at an additional cost.
The birth certificate must reflect the legal position at birth.
This means the surrogate will always be named on the birth certificate in the UK. Whether one of the intended parents can be named depends on whether the surrogate is married/in a civil partnership and the circumstances surrounding insemination.
A parental order makes the intended parent(s) of the child the legal parents and permanently removes the legal parenthood of the surrogate and her spouse.
Once the order has been made, the birth will be reregistered and the original birth certificate will be sealed and only accessible to the child once they are over 18 years old.
The court process can take between four to 12 months and usually involves one or two court hearings.
The surrogate remains the legal parent until a parental order is made.
The surrogate’s consent is also required before a parental order can be made.
Many intended parents worry about what would happen if the surrogate wanted to keep the baby but cases of this happening are incredibly rare. The surrogate can also be concerned that they may be left holding the baby if the intended parents change their minds or their circumstances change.
The most popular destinations for surrogacy arrangements abroad are the US, Canada, Georgia, Greece and, previously, Ukraine. It is important to do extensive research before embarking upon a surrogacy arrangement abroad. It may be that your marital status and gender dictate the options available to you.
You must comply with the law in both the UK and your destination country.
No. In the UK, the surrogate will always be the legal mother.
Whether one of the intended parents can be recognised as the legal parent at birth depends on the surrogate’s marital status and the circumstances surrounding the insemination.
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