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When things feel different, but you can’t explain why

Sometimes relationships change so gradually that it’s difficult to know when things started to feel different.

Life carries on. Work, children, routines and responsibilities continue as normal.

But quietly, questions begin to appear.

Am I overthinking it?
Were we always like this?
Is this just what marriage is?

In this episode, relationship coach Kate Nestor joins host Liza Gatrell to explore why relationship doubts can feel so difficult to acknowledge, how uncertainty often builds quietly over time, and why giving yourself permission to explore those feelings doesn’t mean you have to make a decision.

Why we’re talking about this.

At Stowe, we’ve spent decades supporting people through relationship and family change. One thing we’ve learnt is that legal advice is rarely the beginning of the story.

Long before any decisions are made, people often live with quiet uncertainty. They question themselves, wonder whether what they’re feeling is normal, and carry thoughts they haven’t quite put into words.

That’s why we’ve created resources that explore these experiences to help people better understand what they may be feeling, without pressure or expectation.

Helping you untangle the thoughts

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